I want to share with you one of the biggest conversation killers I used to be guilty of—one that hit me hard when I finally saw it.

Have you ever found yourself preparing a response while someone else is still speaking? Maybe you’re nodding along, but your mind is busy crafting what you’ll say next. Most of us do it—but it’s also one of the biggest barriers to real connection.

Why?

Because when we focus on what we’ll say next, we stop truly listening. We’re not present. Instead, we’re jumping ahead—assuming what the other person means or even finishing their thoughts before they do.

This often comes from a place of wanting to help, relate, or even impress. But here’s the hard truth: these habits can make others feel unheard and even dismissed.

Do any of these sound familiar?

•  You interrupt to share advice before they’ve finished speaking.
•  You mentally rehearse your response while they’re still talking.
•  You assume you already know what they’re going to say.

We all do it. But what happens when we let go of assumptions and become fully present in conversations? That’s when connection deepens.

I learned this the hard way when a good friend looked me in the eye and said, “What are you doing?” He called me out on my habit of jumping to conclusions—and it made me realize how many meaningful conversations I had probably missed out on.

That’s why we created Conversations That Connect.

This course will help you:

•  Recognize and shift impulsive assumptions that derail conversations.
•  Learn practical techniques to remove distractions and listen with full presence.
•  Ask open-ended questions that invite deeper sharing.
•  Pause before responding to ensure the other person feels heard and valued.

We all know we should listen better—but knowing isn’t the same as doing. This course isn’t just about learning communication tips—it’s about practicing new habits so they become second nature.

Break Free from Old Patterns
Most of us learned to listen to respond, not to understand. But the good news? You can unlearn these patterns. Through simple, transformative exercises, you’ll create conversations that build trust, deepen relationships, and leave both people feeling truly connected.

       Imagine having conversations where:

•  You feel deeply heard and understood.
•  Your relationships grow stronger, not strained.
•  You know exactly how to navigate difficult conversations with confidence.

This isn’t just about improving your conversations—it’s about improving your relationships, your connections, and your life.

We begin soon! Don’t miss your chance to join us.

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Warmly,
Gary van Warmerdam

P.S. This simple shift in how you listen could change your relationships forever. Join us for Conversations That Connect and start creating the conversations—and connections—you truly want.