When you dismantle your beliefs, your ego-mind will resist. Getting expert guidance on a process you are not familiar with is just common sense.
I know that changing your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors can be challenging. Even with the toolset from the Self Mastery Course, the mind seems to come up with a myriad of ways to resist, avoid, procrastinate, and even distort lessons. It often feels uncomfortable and you doubt yourself, and the process while you are figuring out how to apply these new skills and get them to work.
There is an easier way to tame your mind. But first…
Do you recognize yourself in these situations?
Don’t know where to start with the practices
Too overwhelmed with emotions
You’ve been practicing the lessons but don’t feel you are integrating them effectively
You have written out an inventory of beliefs, but don’t know what to do to make them change
No need to be embarrassed because you haven’t gotten these tools to work for you. We all needed coaching to learn how to read, swim, ride a bike, play an instrument, build a house, write computer code, or invest our money. The same is true with changing our programmed mind. I had a mentor, Don Miguel Ruiz who I reached out to many times. I also had friends in the process I could share and reach out to for support. These were vital to making the changes I wanted to make. I would not have figured it out on my own, even with a manual.
That’s why I’m inviting you to join me on a completely new format for support when moving through the Self Mastery Courses: live group coaching calls.
I have 25 years of experience in the skills needed to change thoughts, beliefs, emotions, and behaviors. I can save you a lot of time, anguish, and wasted energy.
There is a short cut solution of trying to get your mind under control. Get guidance during the month in live calls with me, or catch up with the video or audio replay at your convenience.
What you'll get....
- Guidance on the critical first step, and layout steps 2, 3, and 4 so you know what to work on that week
- Simple steps to move out of the victim perspective that feels overwhelmed, and begin to work the layers with awareness
- I'll work with you or watch me work with others on the calls as I bring together the different skills from the Self Mastery Course into action
- Answers to your questions and review of your inventory work
- Guidance on navigating resistance showing up
- 3 Live Sessions over Zoom per month (around 5 hours total)
- A private area in the Self Mastery Community for questions and sharings between calls
Live Calls Monthly Schedule
Every month we have three live calls over Zoom. In between calls, you can share questions and read other people’s insights in the online community.
- First Monday of the month, 10 AM Pacific US
- Second Tuesday of the month, 4 PM Pacific
OR Third Wednesday of the month 10 AM Pacific US - Fourth Sunday of the month, 10 AM Pacific US
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"The benefits are simply profound. I feel like someone finally wrote the user’s manual for being human."
Lisa T
This is for you if...
- You have already started the Self Mastery Course work, and want to avoid the fear, doubt, and confusion your mind comes up with to sabotage your progress.
- You have experience in the Self Mastery work, and want to deepen your understanding and skills because you want the maximum benefit for years to come.
- You know that you don’t know all there is to changing your thoughts, beliefs, and emotions, and want to learn from others.
- You want to get insights on advanced practices Gary uses with his clients to do deep work and make changes at a core level.
- You know there is more to this than just the exercises covered in Gary’s book and course and want access to those practices.
- You’ve been thinking about getting private coaching but have been limited by funds.
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"I decided to join this incredible community because after reading Gary’s book in 2018 I wanted to experience his work differently, in a community and with direct access to his teachings. Best decision ever!"
Aitana L
Our own online community
The recordings from video calls will be available in our private group on the Self Mastery Community – both accessible through your browser or an app for Android and iPhone. Asking questions, sharing insights and connecting with other members is super easy. RSVP to our next call and find the Zoom-link in your app, or inbox. No Facebook account needed!
Join the Live Group Coaching
Included
- Monthly subscription to our live calls and answers to your questions
- Mentoring on using the right tool, at the right time, in the right way for maximum benefit
- 3 Live Calls per month, 90 min + each
- Monthly deep dives into specific areas, such as Relationships, Anger, Emotions, Listening, The Monster Inside of us, ETC.
- Access from your computer and app on your phone
- You learn more, and grow faster when together.
- View recordings on line for 30 days, or download.
Not included
- The Self Mastery Course which is available for $545
$175 per month
- Cancel your subscription at any time
- Save thousands of dollars compared to private coaching or therapy
- Some European countries add tax to the price
Already a member on the Self Mastery Community?
NOT a member on the Self Mastery Community yet?
Don’t have the Self Mastery Course 1 yet? Get the coaching first, once a member you will get instructions on purchasing the Self Mastery Course.
Common Questions
I didn’t use to be either. And oddly, the people who join my courses and groups are often similar lone wolfs. I’ve learned that staying in that bubble can be great, but we also miss out. It can become a safe house, and prison after a while. Learning and sharing in a group setting will bring new possibilities for growth and for you to become aware of patterns in the way of the life you want for yourself. It’s okay to show up and feel shy or uncomfortable. Often, we realize we are not the only ones feeling this way. You don’t have to share during the calls if you don’t want to. There is still a lot to take away from listening and doing the practices.
Immediately on sign up you’ll get access to our private area in the Self Mastery Community and can RSVP to our next call.
The group is ongoing and you can join in anytime with what we are working on.
Every month we have three live calls over Zoom. In between calls, you can share questions and read other people’s insights in the online community.
- First Monday of the month, 10 AM Pacific US
- Second Tuesday of the month, 4 PM Pacific
OR Third Wednesday of the month 10 AM Pacific US - Fourth Sunday of the month 10 AM Pacific – US.
The recording will be available for 30 days after the call and you can download it. If you have a question that you want to be answered, or an inventory reviewed, you can post that beforehand and I will answer it during the call.
- If you feel excited when reading about it, the practices and thinking about joining.
- If you’ve done some previous work with observing and changing your thoughts, emotions and behaviors.
- If you feel motivated to get the direct experience, not just theory.
Then jump right in my friend. You can join, and if you find that this isn’t for you, then cancel your subscription any time. Because until you’ve tried you won’t know for sure.
It’s a course that teaches you the skills needed to change your unconscious beliefs, and with that your thoughts, emotional reactions and behaviors. You can read all about it here.
Feedback from people who combined
Live Group Coaching Support with the Self Mastery Course
"The benefits of this course/process, live as part of the group was PHENOMENAL. Being able to ask questions, get feedback, be part of a community of like-soul's individuals helped me grow and expand in ways that doing it "alone" would not have allowed. I daily saw the magic that Napoleon Hill mentions when he says that when two or more gather they gain access to a new, shared consciousness that neither could have created/accessed alone (and magic happens!). My work life and work relationships, my personal relationships, and my relationship to/with myself shifted, healed, and elevated to new levels of love that I never thought possible. It felt very much like when I started, I lived in a one-room 300 square foot efficiency and have now moved into a two-bedroom multi-level dwelling with 10 acres."
Kerensa R
"Doing Gary’s courses has mellowed my anger, jealousy and insecurity. It has given me tools so I can respond to life situations instead of reacting with out of control emotions and behaviors. Learning to watch different characters in my mind and realizing I don’t have to play their roles is a priceless skill you have taught to me."
Jim W
"I feel like I have the tools to do deal with anything. Anytime I have an emotional response to something, instead of resisting it - I am accepting it while rubbing my hands together in anticipation about the discoveries, learnings, and growing about to happen. It's like "oh good, I have something to work with"."
Lisa B
"I decided to join this incredible community because after reading Gary’s book in 2018 I wanted to experience his work differently, in a community and with direct access to his teachings. Best decision ever!"
Aitana L
"The benefits are simply profound. I feel like someone finally wrote the user’s manual for being human."
Lisa T
"I can finally start to relax, my mind would have me dancing like a puppet most of the day and when it wasn’t yanking on the strings I was always scared of it waking up and running me ragged, it was like a loose cannon not knowing what it would do next. I have the tools now to separate ME from it, I feel like I am BIGGER than it now and it's me that decides whether I’ll take it’s advice or entertain myself be watching it do its thing, or maybe I’ll dissolve what’s behind its reaction. I’m nowhere near there yet as it still pulls my attention but that spurs me on to do more practice. There’s a long bumpy road ahead but thanks to Gary & Eva I’m actually ‘on the road’"
Paul W
"I now have some tools to deal with my unpleasant emotions and reactions. My new baseline is a more positive outlook, rather than the high anxiety, doom, and gloom outlook I had built up over the years. With Gary's gentle, insightful guidance, I have gained confidence and compassion for myself and others. My long-standing relationships have shifted dramatically. More open and honest communication has allowed past wounds to heal. What a huge gift! My only regret is I did not start this work earlier, but as Gary says, you start when you are ready. It's never too late to look inward and find your authentic self."
Kelly F
About me
I have been guiding people for the past 20 years in changing their belief systems and emotions to personal change. While the self-help industry has grown with the digital revolution and flooded the internet with millions of articles and information, these seldom give you the depth needed and the practical tools for long term change. My intent is that Pathway to Happiness offers you a deeper and well-proven process with practical exercises that will shift your thinking, emotions, and behaviors permanently at the core.
What I am fundamentally sharing is how to change your negative thoughts, emotions, emotional reactions, and behaviors. The most effective way to do this to change your beliefs (most of which are sub-conscious), and release repressed emotions. I’ve learned and developed many practical ways to do this. Exercises that are practical are important to me. I want things that work and are repeatable. That’s probably due to my mechanical engineering education. You won’t find a lot of “woo-woo” or new age philosophy written about here. If you do, I am probably punching holes in the logic, or application of it.
I didn’t get into this field 25 years ago because I thought it would be cool or make money. I got started because I was unhappy. My mind was full of incessant thoughts of judgments and blaming than I couldn’t stand anymore. Any approach to fixing how the gears in my mind worked had to make sense. Oddly this led to developing consciousness awareness. It seems like an abstract quality to develop for practical real-world results, but it works.
/Gary van Warmerdam
